I have admired beautiful women wearing African waist beads for years. I always thought they would look foolish on my ever so curvy, far from flat stomach. Until I came across a beautiful plus-size woman online wearing them like she knew she was the proverbial bag of chips, and she was! She exuded a sense of confidence that made me feel like I needed waist beads in my life.
I did not want to tie them on without an understanding of what they meant. I researched the origin and the meaning of waist beads which made me want them even more. I learned that waist bead wearing is deeply rooted in femininity and self-awareness. In some parts of Africa, waist beads are part of the naming ceremony for babies. Waist, ankle, or arm beads are tied to gauge their growth and provide protection. Waist beads symbolize the transition from childhood into womanhood. They are gifted to women preparing for marriage.
I started by purchasing enough materials to make one or two strands for myself at the beginning of what would become a very long shutdown for me. After tons of YouTube tutorials, I struggled through pricking myself with needles, beads rolling all over the floor, and nearly cutting off my circulation to get to a place where I was comfortable sharing my newfound knowledge.
When I say waist beads are magical, I mean they are magical!!! I immediately saw myself differently in the mirror. I certainly felt when my waist beads were trying to tell me something, especially after meals. I have forgiven myself ever doubting myself and my gifts. And I decided I was through carrying the weight of wrong turns in my past. I am a work in progress. Waist beads have helped me tremendously along my journey so far.
I raved about my waist beads so much that I started receiving requests to make them for others, I have not stopped making them since.
They serve as a beautiful reminder of whatever you want to manifest in your life. Whether it be self-love, self-confidence, success, weight management, or alluring adornment for yourself or your significant other you seek, I may have what you need!
Peace and Blessings,
Brandy L.